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The Sweet Trap of Excessive Self-Confidence

This is a story about how both monastics and ordinary people fall into the trap of "excessive self-confidence," leading to a misunderstanding of the Buddha's teachings and the gradual decline of the true Dharma.

The lecture hall was silent. The afternoon sun slanted through the window panes, laying a thin layer of golden dust over the wooden benches. The sound of the temple bell echoed from afar, but in the minds of many sitting there, the noise of pride still rang louder than the bell itself.

The lecturer stood on the high platform, his voice deep and warm yet full of weight, as if trying to awaken the illusory dreams that enveloped the monastic community. He spoke of a painful reality: between us and the bodhisattvas lies a vast distance, but the most frightening thing is not that distance—it is the darkness hidden deep within each of us, which is "excessive self-confidence."

"The Arhats, those who have attained the way, can even move mountains and fill seas, fly into the sky, or dive into the earth. Yet the Buddha pointed out that they still carry the five final fetters, among them conceit. Why? Because they have not yet fully seen through the self."

The image of a Zen master proudly climbing onto someone's shoulders, or splitting a Buddha statue to burn as firewood in the cold winter, arises in the listener's mind. Is that a sign of true freedom, or a symptom of hidden arrogance? The teacher explained that when a person reaches some level of realization, even if not yet an Arhat, they begin to feel they have "arrived." This feeling is like a frog at the bottom of a well, gazing at the sky through the mouth of the well, yet firmly believing it has understood the entire universe.

The teacher offered a concrete example, so vivid it made listeners shudder. Think back to your school days: even on the hardest problems, few ever received a perfect score of ten. Most of us understood only five, ten, or twenty percent of the material. Yet strangely, as soon as people grasp thirty percent of the Buddha's teachings, many rush to proclaim themselves brilliantly intelligent, or bodhisattvas reborn into this world. They use that limited understanding to judge the Buddha and to interpret the scriptures according to their own whims.

"When you believe you have understood everything, that is when you begin to diminish the value of the Buddha's way. You turn absolute truth into ordinary, incomplete explanations. And it was precisely the masters afflicted with this disease of 'excessive self-confidence' who dragged Buddhism into the age of the Dharma's decline, deteriorating little by little until it was nearly lost."

The story then turned to an everyday situation, where the trap of wrong view lies waiting for those who have just set out on the path. One morning, after hearing a teaching on cause and effect (karmic law), on sacrifice and service as the seeds of happiness, a young layperson walked out of the temple gate with a heart full of enthusiasm. He had just resolved to devote himself to charitable work, accepting hardship in order to bring love to others.

Suddenly, an acquaintance whispered in his ear:

"Listen, there's this master who is amazing. My husband had terminal cancer, and the doctors had given up. I went to see him. He just pressed here and there, then gave my husband some little clumps of earth to swallow. When we got home, my husband was cured! And my friend, drowning in debt after a stroke of misfortune, met him too. He examined her fingernails and gave her a few pills of secret medicine. Money began flowing in like water. So easy, so little effort, such great results. Why struggle so hard to earn blessings from merit the difficult way?"

Those words were like a narcotic, striking precisely at the human craving for quick success. The enthusiasm of moments before vanished like mist under the sun. Instead of trusting in cause and effect (karmic law), in steady and persistent effort, he began to doubt his teacher's words and curiously asked for the address of that "magic master." This is exactly how wrong view survives alongside the true Dharma, slipping into every corner of the heart and destroying faith in the law of cause and effect (karmic law).

The lecturer returned to the core issue: the self and its branch office. He compared our brain to a "thinking center," like the branch office of an abbot. In practice, if we accidentally collapse this thinking center, we imagine we have eradicated the self. We feel empty, pure, free of wandering thoughts. But in reality, the true self—that "abbot"—is still there; it simply no longer resides in the old office. It has moved to communicating by phone, email, or through a secret "cloud." It still governs, still controls, but in a subtler, harder-to-detect way.

Many Zen masters, after experiencing this "collapse of the thinking center," mistakenly believed they had attained the way, that they had realized complete non-self (anatta). They began to describe their state of enlightenment in flowery, transcendent language: "Like a wooden person watching a painted bird," or "Like a stone girl dancing." It sounds delightful, deeply mystical. But when disciples asked, "How can I climb up to that place?" they fell silent or answered vaguely. They displayed their state of attainment without opening a path of practice leading from the ground up. The disciple stands on the earth, looking up, seeing only drifting clouds, without even a glimpse of the rooftop.

The Meaning of the Story

The lesson that Venerable Thích Chân Quang wished to convey through this story is a stern warning about the disease of "excessive self-confidence"—a form of hidden arrogance that is most dangerous for practitioners. At any level, from ordinary beings to the noble ones, if we do not hold firmly to the goal of non-self (anatta) and remain humble, "always studying in accordance with the Buddha," we can easily fall into the trap of illusion, misunderstand the Buddha's teachings, and unknowingly contribute to the decline of the true Dharma. Reverence for the Buddha and love for all sentient beings are directly proportional to our depth of understanding of the truth; when understanding falls short, reverence dries up, and wrong view easily creeps in.

Compiled from a dharma talk by Venerable Thích Chân Quang.

AI-assisted translation from the Vietnamese original.

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