True Freedom: Not Getting Everything You Want

Freedom is not about doing whatever you please. It is the right to make choices within the scope of your own merit and blessings from merit. Understanding this truth allows us to live in peace, cultivating merit to expand our freedom. Have you ever heard a child say to their parents, "I want that big house over there!"? The child desires it, but can they have it? No, because it belongs to someone else. Does this mean the child has lost their freedom? Then consider someone who wants to buy the three houses next door and does so immediately. Why? Because they have money and merit. Thus, we see that true freedom is not simply getting what one wants. In the dharma talk titled "The Meaning of Freedom According to the Law of Cause and Effect," Venerable Thich Chan Quang offers us a profound perspective on freedom from a spiritual viewpoint.
Freedom Is Not Doing Whatever You Please
Many people mistakenly believe that freedom means doing whatever they desire. However, reality shows that freedom is conditional. Even moving to another house requires money, which is a form of merit. There is no absolute freedom in this world. Venerable Thich Chan Quang reminds us that understanding this principle reveals the truth of the Buddha's teachings. Every event arises from conditions and follows the law of cause and effect. Our freedom in life is not random; it is born from specific causes and conditions.
Freedom Is the Right to Choose, Dependent on Merit
In Buddhist studies, freedom is defined as the right to choose. Those with abundant merit have more options. When a poor student goes shopping for clothes, they may only afford the cheapest items, while the child of a wealthy family can easily purchase luxury brands. Their levels of freedom differ significantly. As the teacher explains, a person who is truly free is one who possesses more rights to choose.
Demanding Beyond Your Merit Brings Suffering
When we desire things that exceed our current merit, we experience suffering. For example, wanting to buy an expensive motorcycle without sufficient funds, or demanding international schooling when the family cannot afford it, leads to anxiety, stress, and even psychological crisis. The teacher clarifies that the root of our pain lies in demanding choices that lie outside the boundaries of our own merit.
Happiness Comes from Living Within Your Limits
There is a story of a teacher who was wrongly imprisoned for ten years. He did not demand anything beyond his circumstances. Instead, he lived within the limits allowed, teaching his fellow inmates. Even when physical freedom was taken away, he remained happy. After being exonerated, he even asked to return to the prison to continue teaching. He found happiness by choosing only within the scope of his abilities and merit, never reaching beyond them. Even if you have the merit to buy a luxury vehicle, choosing a simple electric bicycle can bring a lightness of heart. This is a wise way to live, reducing pressure and increasing contentment.
Cultivate Practice to Expand Merit and Freedom
Therefore, instead of making demands, we should focus on spiritual practice to create merit. As our merit grows, our freedom naturally expands. The teacher advises us to cultivate practices that generate great merit. By elevating our merit, our capacity for choice increases proportionally. True happiness is not merely having many options, but possessing the wisdom to choose correctly within what we already have. Live in this manner, and you will find peace and genuine joy.
AI-assisted translation from the Vietnamese original.
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