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The Secret of the Dishwasher and the PhD Student

The atmosphere at Phat Quang Pagoda during the Lunar New Year festival that year was intensely vibrant. Thousands of people thronged together amidst the resonant bell chimes, the scent of incense mingling with the warmth of countless bodies united by a common faith. Amidst this dense crowd, there were simple images that made one pause and reflect.

In the kitchen area, a Vietnamese-Canadian couple had returned to their homeland not for leisure or luxurious travel. Dressed in simple clothes, they held trays of steaming rice, their faces wearing kind smiles as they served each portion to pilgrims. Seeing them, many might have mistaken them for novice volunteers, so dedicated and skillful were their every movement. In reality, however, they were individuals of high social standing and prestigious careers abroad. When asked why they chose this "humble" work, the husband simply smiled gently.

"We have realized that true happiness lies not in being served, but in bringing joy to others. Carrying a bowl of rice, pouring a glass of water at this moment is how we plant seeds of blessings from merit."

Not far away, beside a sink overflowing with soap suds, a familiar figure was working with her head bowed diligently. It was a famous television actress, whose face usually graced the small screen with radiance and elegance. Yet, from the eve of the Lunar New Year until now, she had simply sat in this quiet corner, her hands immersed in cold water, washing each dish and bowl clean after the meals of thousands of visitors. The abbot passed by, paused for a moment to watch, then left quietly without a word. The young woman maintained her bright smile, her eyes sparkling with pure joy. For her, humbling herself to serve the community, even in the most arduous logistical work, was the pinnacle of life's meaning. She understood that the joy she brought to others would return to her as enduring blessings from merit.

But the lesson in service did not stop with these concrete actions during the festival. It also spread powerfully through stories about wisdom and the future. An email sent from the United States stirred many people's faith in the law of cause and effect. Its author was a young person, an international student majoring in Psychology—a field that is extremely demanding and fiercely competitive.

They recounted that before going to America, they had memorized their teacher's words: "Seek success by helping others succeed first." Throughout their undergraduate and graduate studies, instead of hoarding materials or competing over grades, they always readily shared knowledge, sought out the best resources, and gave them to classmates. They wished for their friends to be more skilled and successful than they were. When entering the doctoral application round, where only five were selected from two hundred and fifty candidates, the pressure on everyone was immense. Those around them were guarded, holding each other back, fearing being surpassed. Yet, this student held firm to their resolve, continuing to help friends prepare for the exam.

Then, a miracle happened. Just a few days before the final oral examination, incredibly challenging questions, far beyond the scope of normal review materials, spontaneously arose in their mind. Initially surprised, they quickly sat down, thought deeply, and meticulously prepared answers for these "naturally appearing" questions. On exam day, upon entering the room to face renowned professors, they were stunned to hear questions that perfectly matched what they had prepared. Thanks to this thorough preparation, they answered fluently, confidently, and completely convinced the examination panel.

"I have absolute faith in the law of cause and effect,"

they wrote in the email. "When one sincerely wishes for others to be better, in the end, one reaps the greatest success oneself. I not only passed into the doctoral program but was also awarded a full scholarship, covering tuition, food, and housing. This is the result of being unselfish, of not scrambling for advantage."

The story of the student and those who washed dishes and served rice, though different in context, share a common denominator: the choice of a path of service and contribution. They did not choose shortcuts or personal indulgence. They chose the "slower path" within their capacity, accumulating small blessings from merit through sincere, modest actions. And when sufficient good conditions came together, the sweet fruit fell, bringing not just material success or fame, but inner peace and the universe's support.

**The Meaning of the Story**

The core lesson that Venerable Thich Chan Quang wishes to convey is: Life is a journey, and the most important thing is the destination and the path we choose. Instead of chasing personal benefits, choose the path of service, contribution, bringing joy and benefit to others. The law of cause and effect affirms that when we sincerely wish for others' success, we ourselves will reap the most surprising and magnificent achievements. Do not be hasty to rush ahead without sufficient blessings from merit. Start from small, humble actions, and persevere on the path of ethics and spiritual cultivation.

*Compiled from a dharma talk by Venerable Thich Chan Quang*

AI-assisted translation from the Vietnamese original.

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